please don't judge a book by it's cover

don't make a conclusion from a joke..

don't judge a situation without careful observation..

the judgement without asking the true will affect another..

we had heard people said that other person will be 'mirror of ourself'.

sometimes, to hear what people said is good but we must to remember that tongue can lie.

some words is spoken is not as same as in the heart.

don't be too excited to observe other people.

we are just make a conclusion from outside without knowing what the real is..

today, some people do or say something just for express the situation and just for a dialogue

eventhough, they are do not really want to take it as serious thing. 

this will be a problem for other people who just heard and see the impression without know the true meaning. from there, many misunderstanding will be.

so, for people who are want to judge other people, please try to do not busy body for others problem and if you are really want to know, please find out the true conclusions.

 if i on this situation, i don't think to interfere other people problem. we did not know, sometimes there are not really a problem but they just want to make a hot topic to discuss just they are discussing in badly( it's look) . so, this will only create more misunderstanding and sometimes will be a fight. in this situation, this is unfair to people who had been judge by other people eventhough they are do not really mean it..